I spent four months visiting jewelers and handling diamonds before proposing last year. The single most important thing I learned:
Cut is everything.
I held two diamonds side by side:
- Diamond A: 1.20ct, F color, VVS2 clarity, GIA Very Good cut — $7,200
- Diamond B: 1.05ct, H color, SI1 clarity, GIA Excellent cut — $5,800
Diamond B was blindingly beautiful. Diamond A looked dull in comparison. Anyone looking at both stones for 10 seconds would pick Diamond B.
The difference: light performance. An Excellent cut diamond is engineered to return maximum light back to the viewer's eye. A Very Good cut loses more light through the bottom.
The hierarchy of what matters:
- Cut — non-negotiable, always Excellent
- Cut — still the most important
- Cut — I cannot stress this enough
- Then color (G or H is fine for white metal)
- Then clarity (VS2 or even SI1 eye-clean is fine)
- Then carat — buy as large as your budget allows AFTER getting cut right
Tools I used:
- GIA Report Check to verify every certificate
- Blue Nile's advanced search filters
- James Allen's 360° video on every stone
Spend 20 minutes with the GIA cut grade explainer. It will save you thousands and get you a better ring.


Cut first, always. I tell everyone this. A well-cut H will outshine a poorly-cut D every single time.